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Kim
Lockhart is a certified dating coach for professionals in
LA. Her earlier attempts at matchmaking were more sly, yet
unsuccessful. “Years ago when I lived in the Bay Area,
I would organize dinner parties, and try to set people up
without them knowing it. I wanted it to seem ‘natural.’
But then one or two key people would cancel, and then someone
else would bring an unexpected guest, and my whole plan would
fall apart. So I figured out that “secret” date
coaching doesn’t work.”
These
days, Kim is unabashed in her enthusiasm to set singles up.
But now it’s through coaching, classes, mixers and rockin’
big parties.
“There
are so many smart, fun, creative and basically awesome single
people in LA. But they’re not meeting each other. I
want to change that!” With that mission in mind, Kim
has spent the past few years studying the sexes, through classes,
workshops, research, focus groups and real life coaching experience.
“When I see the change in someone who suddenly has confidence
and enjoys meeting new people, it delights me. And after they’ve
had a great date, I’m like a teenager who wants to know
every last detail.”
When
she’s not coaching, or studying the sexes, Kim can be
found napping on the beach, cruising around on her yellow
bike, or enjoying margaritas with her husband and friends.
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Luis
is a former superstar athlete who never had trouble making
friends. However, meeting women was a different story. Always
one to put in time and practice to achieve a goal, Luis read
endless books on women and relationships. He then started
applying the various ways to approach and build attraction,
but he’s the first to admit that there were a lot of
crash and burn scenarios.
However,
that only drove him to want to practice even more. Luis never
passed up the opportunity to talk to a woman even if he wasn’t
interested in dating her. Malls, parks, and grocery stores;
they were all places for him to practice.
An
important aspect learned in his research was that women are
communicators. In order to help him overcome what most consider
their number one fear, he joined a public speaking organization.
By working on his communication skills, it made talking to
women easier.
After
a few years, he became aware that it was more about getting
to know himself than getting to know women. When he realized
this, he became more confident which led to more dating. The
more he dated, the more insight he got about the opposite
sex. His circle of friends, both male and female, began to
take notice. They were impressed with his busy dating life
and eventually he became their “dating guru.”
Luis
is skilled at providing invaluable dating advice to both men
and women. He’s already helped many men overcome their
fear of approaching, with positive results. Because he’s
been there, he genuinely understands the pressure men feel.
Women benefit from his straightforward advice about how men
really think. The ladies also learn about how their personal
behaviors can turn men on or off. His most important belief
is that dating should be a fun experience for all. |
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